Introducing e-Farid...
Response to Alia's blog... Woman brain

Female Brain
Life...
Life is not about amount of breath you take, it is about moments that takes your breath away...
Best ever Saturday
I had a blast yesterday...I watched a movie in the beginning of the day...Later on, couple of British and German friends joined me for MLS soccer game of San Jose Earthquakes versus LA Galaxy. Game was good... It was like watching 2nd or 3rd league of Turkey but what to do? We are in USA... Anyways, San Jose won 2-1 and San Jose's old golden boy Donovan scored for Galaxy's only goal. It was really good goal. He is really high class for MLS.
Later on, I joined Aaron (MC teammate), Amanda (Aaron's sister), Kam (my Punjabi bro), Sunny (Kam's friend ) and Umi (former LCP in Germany) at Irish bar...We talked about everything such as European and American football, religion, economy, globalization, etc.... One of the most interesting topics was about marriage and dating.
Aaron told us his theory about marriage. According to him, marriages can be two types. First one is when you are totally emotional. Love and so on... Basically, you marry because you are blind with love… Second type of marriage is when you divorce and you really think that the first type of marriage is BS and you will marry only if you can complete each other with your partner, be like a “team” which will strive for a common goal...
I think, I would agree with this theory and it can also be applied to relationships as well... Person's first relationship usually happens for love and emotions but if you end the relationship really bad, then you start to think more rational about your next relationship where you start thinking of dating with a person who can complete you...
Week is over, stress is over...
The week with full of stress is over... Visa stuff is sorted out...Although it is not perfect, it is better than nothing...Now, I am sad about missing IC 2005. But it is ok, I will go the one in Poland and couple of Expros for sure...
Now, I am excited to have my weekend in Bay Area. I will work a little either on Saturday or Sunday but I plan to do some shopping as well...
Yesterday, I was at the meeting of AIESEC San Jose... Guys are doing really great...They are planning to adopt a child abroad as well as a lot of impactful events. It was really great to attend their meeting... I wish them best...They are also planning to have 3 events during weekend. But I guess, I will join other friends of mine in Bay Area for this weekend...
Let's see how it will go...
My theory...
I have a theory...theory about humanity...why are we on earth? What is our mission? What is the role of religions?
I came up with this theory 2-3 years ago, when I was trying to answer following question to myself...why am I on earth? What is my mission? Why am I created? To answer those questions, I read a lot of books including all three main books which were sent by the same GOD.
All three books start pretty much with same story: there were 2 human beings who lived in Heaven, then they did something wrong (ate apple, talked to snake and etc...) and they were sent to Earth. All books say that, human is part of God, because God blew to them after He created them and He even asked angels to bow to the human. That means, we are very very good creature, may be the best ever God has created...But we cannot be perfect, because God is Perfect...Do you think, Creator will create something better than itself? Will human create robots which are better than us in everything? No... So, this "not-perfect" creature starts to live Heaven. A place full of peace. If you read descriptions, Heaven is very peaceful place versus Hell... I think the mistake that human being made in Heaven was that, they created a conflict. They did something wrong that, God got really mad. Then, God decides that, instead of re-making the humans, why don't I format their head (like we format the computer hard disks...) and send them to so called “Universe or Earth”, where they will learn everything themselves...
So, human beings got sent to Universe, to Earth, without any knowledge about anything...Totally zero...Since then, humanity starts to learn...Educate themselves and educate their souls...the knowledge of human being 1000s years ago is nothing compared to today's human being...Archimedes was smartest human being once on Earth, but today, I remember learning his "Eureka" in my elementary school... I am sure; my grand children will learn Einstein in their high schools… Basically, our mission on Earth is to learn...Obviously, we cannot learn everything, but every single person can contribute to ultimate learning process. Even a person almost dieing from hunger in Africa contributes to this process. They add their own portion to humanity...
So, now...imagine...human being...knowing everything...like billion years later...a human being with all knowledge...what will it look like? Imagine a person knows everything about chemistry, biology, history...everything... will that person create conflict? Will that "super-knowledgeable" Armenian or Turk fight stupid for genocide issue? Will that "super knowledgeable" Uganda child will kill others? Will that "super-knowledgeable" American fight for oil? nope, I do not think so...because, there won’t be need for that...that Armenian and Turk will be more open minded...that Uganda child will know that, the spiritual stuff that their leader teaches them is BS...that American will know how to get other types of energy and you do not need to invade a country... knowledge, knowledge...knowledge...that is the key...if you look around, all the conflicts are based on not knowing...and how you bring knowledge? By educating...it is education for a lot more years now...I don't think people will know everything overnight, but eventually they will learn... it is a long process... this way we will deserve peace, and that’s when all human beings mission on Universe and Earth will end…May be that is when Resurrection Day will come…
I decided that, my mission in the World is to educate as many as possible. Since I have so many opportunities that most of World’s youth do not have, I think, I need to make most out of it…I want to be very rich, in order to open as many schools as possible...
In AIESEC…I think, we have super practical education system in AIESEC…what are we teaching? We are teaching open mind ness…cultural awareness…and we are doing it in practical way, by Exchange. Each year so many people are breaking their stereotypes…each year, one by one, we are changing a person…doesn’t that bring us closer to peace? I think, it does…but it is a slow process…but eventually it will…
You know, why we think, world peace is unrealistic? Because, nobody has seen it before… but may be nobody will see it…I think, world will come to end, when there will be ultimate peace…that’s when humanity will finish its mission…and that is when we will all return to where we belong to… to HEAVEN!!!
Back in Bay Area...
Oley oley oley...
I am back in San Jose...I love California so much...I realized it again yesterday. I also missed my car...Travel went well without any delays and I read half of te book that Chrispy gave me. It is about Soccer and world politics. Awesome boook...
Now, I am sitting in AIESEC office in Bay Area and will go to university to sort out my visa issues soon...
Cross your fingers for me...
another wierd day
Ah, this Monday started very weird. For those, who don't know, I moved to NYC after joining AIESEC USA. NYC is really different city. I do not know, if I will ever like this city. It is very loud, trafic, dirty and wierd people. Everybody looks at you, like, they want to kill you. Even you are afraid to order your food with your own money. Weather sucks. Leaving in CA for years and years...Oh my GOD...what am I going to do when winter comes?
Work is very exciting. It is not the type of job where everything happens same everyday. It is very interesting. To know that, what you do, changes somebody's life...is a such a great feeling.
Day started with bad news from India. My sister Missy is feeling bad in India and I hope she will get better soon. I pray God for her...
Jen and I had a little nice chat about me being weird...Ah, I wish Jen was the only one who thought so...A lot of people telling me the same...I really hate to give a wrong impression to friends...I do not care what random people think about me, but I DO care what friends think...Hope I will prove them wrong soon...
Another exciting thing is, I am going to Bay Area...YAAAAAAAAAAAAHOOOO.....I am going there for 10 days. Not for vacation or fun. 10 stressful days when I will fight for my legal status in USA. Hope, I will get everything sorted out. but to go back to best city and best state of USA is always great...
till tomorrow, adios...
I am back
After being away from nomandslife for a while, I decided to be back. From now on, I promise to write at least once in a day.